Sep 28 2008
Umms…
Just for grins, the next time you listen to the candidates debating, count the “ums” and other filler words used by each (you may have to watch the debates on You Tube later if you want to actually pay attention to what they say). Filler words are such phrases as “you know,” and words such as “um,” “er” and even “like.” They are usually used when someone is uncomfortable with the silence, therefore they fill it…hence the term “filler words.” They are generally unnecessary and a sure sign of nerves or unconscious speech patterns. They tend to detract from what is being said, and public speakers generally try to avoid them. How do they do this? Mostly, they do this through conscious awareness of them and training themselves to be quiet rather than use a filler word. But I’d be curious to know: How do YOU avoid using filler words?